(((hbb))) I have to tell you, what ITFM says is true- I am not quite where she is yet but I do wake up some days and realize after an hour or so that he was not the first thing on my mind when I woke up...it is CRAZY when that first happens...or the time I actually got through the entire grocery store/shopping and realized when I was home putting the food away that I didn't think about him once during shopping (the grocery store is always tough for me for some strange reason...sappy music, seeing couples shopping together, maybe??)
In my experience, no contact was the only thing that made that possible....hang in there!