I agree to let him crash and burn. That way he has no one to blame but himself and maybe he will finally have to face what he has done to himself. You don't owe him a place to stay, a cell phone or money for drugs. He is an adult and as such is responsible for himself. I know it is hard. Everytime my daughter has lost something due to her addiction, it has hurt me. I come here and post about it and receive wonderful support. No matter how far you come practicing letting go, things can still shake you up, that is why you need to have a good support network in place. Just the other day, I found out my daughter is passing bad checks. Tried to find out where she is living, etc. Sent mefor a loop, even though I have been doing really well with my recovery. Stay strong and remember we all have slips from time to time. The important thing is to realize them and start again. Take good care of yourself because that is so important. Hugs, Marle