like mr c., i was going to ask you just how does this surprise you? ah, hells fire, i know......i used to do that all the time with my xh. i just kept doing things the same way with my xh, expecting a different outcome each time. then i just could not believe that he would do what he would do.
the ball was in my court the whole time......and i kept bouncing it back to a very sick man, expecting him to score with the ball, or at least be able to do a good dribble with it. i took my ball, and went home........to play with people that would be part of our team.
it was then up to me to figure out why my mind set was trying to insist that this sick person play a decent game of ball, when i really knew he wasn't willing to, able to....whatever.
i had to fix me and re-wire my thinking.
much love to you 123....(i'll be singing that tune in my head all day now....but isn't that just too sweet.....them little children singing at the end of the song?????? i just love it)
jeri