The cops are right on this one I think. He might just have to crash and burn.
What you said reminded me so much of my ex. Giving me $$ for bills and then wanting it back. Saying he will pay me back with interest..yeah, not in this lifetime! UGH!!
Just remember he did it to himself.
As they say...
You didn't cause it
You can't control it
You can't cure it.
hugs. Lisa