Some call it an upward spiral.
When we start acting with respect towards self, we start pulling in others towards ourself. They see our smile and smile back. Their smile helps us realize...we are worth it.
With my spirit lifted and then seeing the impact I can have on others by sharing my smile...others start in an upward spiral.
The more I gave away, the more I grow. Service work is an important part of finding that upward spiral. Self worth grows by doing. Sitting at home on the pity pot only gains me a red ring *LOL*