hi justjo
out of respect for her recovery efforts, i would choose a non-drinking place. i think popular opinions are that it shouldn't matter, but alcohol is her demon, and she is still so fresh from the demons clutches. i would just choose a non-drinking environment out of respect for her efforts. she is so eary in her recovery. some may think my idea is enabling, by changing plans to help protect the recovering alcoholic, but to me, it would be a matter of respect and support at this stage. later.....when one has some sobriety and strong recovery under their belt would be the only time i would consider having alcohol in any event.
best wishes.
you know, this may be a real good question for the forum.....new to reovery, or something like that....or the alcohol forum. i bet you would get some really good advice there
jmho.