Yep, it was always just easier that way. No uncomfortable first times and all that crap, heaven forbid I be "uncomfortable" huh? I did have one bf that I met in the program, we were friends for many years and when he started asking me out, boy I kept him at arms length, why you ask. . .well of course because he was the "nice guy" that's why. We were together about 2 yrs and lived together a little while too, but. . .I got really sick, physically and gained a bunch of weight and was so totally unhappy with everything including myself that poor guy, he tried to just stay away a lot!