Sorry I must have hit the submit button twice.....
DW wrote
He is the father of my children and THEY deserve a healthy dad.
What you deserve in this life is not always what you get......they also deserve a Mom that puts their needs before a drug addicts....I don't mean to sound harsh and I certainly feel for you and the pain you are in....however your children should be your first priority and he has shown you time and time again that to be a good husband and father is not in his plans.....
You cannot help him, nothing you say will change him....so please, please set about to making changes in yourself......listen to what all of these good people are saying, they only want what is best for you and your kids......
Said with sadness and concern,