Is this to harsh???
I have received yet another letter from ex-ah now that he is in jail he "loves" me once again and is wanting "help" again this letter is telling me that I injured his ego and that he is glad that it has taken all this time to get him to where he is with God. Talks about that he thinks that he is coming here after he is done with jail probation or whatever. Then he tells me to watch a movie to understand him and that he finally wants to be a father also that if he gets out on July 13 that he will wait for me to take him home with me. He explains why I was wrong to ask him to read a book that would help when we had been married. This is my letter back to him:
Dear ex-ah
I have been struggling with how to answer your last 2 letters, but after I got this last one I figured that I had better write to tell you where I stand with things.I don't want to be harsh with you while you are in jail and this is why I have struggled so much with writing this letter. While I am happy that you have finally come to a place that you want to get your life together. I have to tell you that I will not even consider a relationship with you until you have meet my boundaries and they are that you must complete a program 6 months or longer, lived on your own, provided for yourself for at least 6 months, been clean and can provide me proof of this. You said something about me not trusting God well all that I have to say to that is worry about yourself as your messes are greater then mine. I am not going to watch a movie to understand you! You need to explain yourself. I am not going to say that I am sorry that I asked you to read a little hundred page book, I did nothing wrong! I told you 3 years ago that if I didn't have another baby within the next 2 years than I was done and well time is up my kids are big enough now that I don't have to worry about bottles & diapers, I don't want to do that again. I have health problem and am in no condition to have more babies.
I can see from your letters that you haven't really changed, call me when you do. I will not answer another letter from you although I will read just one more, so choose your words carefully any letter I get after that first one will be sent back return to sender.
Me