wow, i would run like heck.surely u know you can do better than him.u may think you love him but give it a yr. or two & i bet you want.this is your choice but read around on this forum & all the sticky. i have never told anyone to run but honey that whole family has issues.how could any body be happy in that family?your choice,your decision.i just know you can do better & you deserve better.i will say a big prayer for you & his family.hugs,