I think its possible not to heal from the bad marriage and bring issues into the next releationship. (Trust, etc.) But you went from a bad marriage, not to a normal relationship ... but to one with an addict. And even if you had healed from the bad marriage there are going to be all kind of issues come up with a relationship with an
addict. Lying, stealing, not paying bills, etc. is just what addicts do. Be sure to read the "What addicts Do" sticky at the top of the page. Look within and base your decisions on your happiness and what you want/deserve. Praying everything works out for you.