Originally Posted by
cherryberry 
I don't know whether to just let the argument go (I am not an arguer), but I know he will move forward acting like I have a big "stain on my record" and "little miss perfect" is not so perfect anymore, so I have no right to demand acceptible behaviour of him again. This is so twisted.
He'll think what he wants/needs to think; no matter what.............already does. I have found,it is better (for me and my peace of mind) if I just save my energy and be quiet...took me awhile to get that thru my head! Works better for me. He doesn't hear or care anyhow!
Hope you and your son enjoy celebrating his birthday! That IS something great!!
