Originally Posted by
ARealLady 
drunks get a look in their eye which is glazed and scarey. I didn't know what he might be thinking. In any event, I found the "look" emotionally abusive.
I had a nightmares about this "look".
I think my moment was mostly when he said, "I don't think I'm an alcoholic and I should be able to have a few whenever I want to."
He said this almost 2 years after getting his license back after his second DUI.
The thing that reinforced my decision to have no contact with him was when he left a voice message on my cell - "I understand why you could hate me...but maybe I'll hear from you." Sick...real sick.