it's funny, cuz hank is out whacking things (we need to replace a couple boards on the deck and have to clear all the viney things) and i was thinking i should get out there and help him....now i'm saying this to myself while: cleaning the kitchen, doing laundry, srubbbing the toilet, wiping down bathroom counters, making the bed.........ANd don't know about your sweetie, but if i'm in his line of sight too long he SUDDENLY gets a case of helpless and NEEDS me to do something..........perfectly capable to inept in three nanoseconds!!!! men.