Penny For Your Thoughts Part 15
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Penny For Your Thoughts Part 15
This one is dedicated to Teke.........the one who started this "Say whatever is on your mind" thread. We miss you lady!! Hope you're feeling better everyday and can get back here soon! 
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Still havent heard back from teke I will try her again later though. I dont want to bother her too much.
Anvil where r u I miss your morning updates about your great dinners the night b4 please come back to us!!!!!
Jewelz I hope everything is ok with u come back when u get a chance too
Finally hope all is well
Blues miss u too
Loves, Live, Cinder, Plam and everyone else good morning.
Anvil where r u I miss your morning updates about your great dinners the night b4 please come back to us!!!!!
Jewelz I hope everything is ok with u come back when u get a chance too
Finally hope all is well
Blues miss u too
Loves, Live, Cinder, Plam and everyone else good morning.
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Originally Posted by liveweyerd 
Screw issues.
See?
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Why have issues today when I can put it off until tomorrow.
I simply am not answering the phone unless the call is from Indiana.
Hey, daughter was getting toxemia....so they are going to induce her today at 5pm.
She could have just went on in to the hospital then, but we were both more worried about her hubs who is scared to death. for some reason he is scared they are both going to die in childbirth. So she decided not to call him at work and have him driving like a maniac in a panic for 2 1/2 hours. She's calm. I'm calm. By tomorrow I should have a new grandson and I am betting he is a big one. I need to go back and check...did I win my 2 week bet? She went home to have a light lunch, rest and wait for him to get home.Then they will go to the hospital. Gee, I think she is in better shape to drive. But ...can't have anyone getting too hyper around her..it shoots her blood pressure up dangerously. Guess that's why she knew she could talk to me. See, I can be rational! LOL She is fine. Her only worry when I talked to her yesterday was that they would not induce her today...but today there was protein in her urine which indicated kidney damage. So, no need to beg, plead and convince.
See, we had all ready decided yesterday how this was going to go down! LOL
I have to tell Edie that we can't be friends anymore and I can't work with her anymore. That's my issue. I don't even know how to say things like that. So, nope not answering the phone.
No upsetting issues today for me. They are BANNED.
I am going to have a joyous day.....I get a new baby!!!!!!
I simply am not answering the phone unless the call is from Indiana.
Hey, daughter was getting toxemia....so they are going to induce her today at 5pm.
She could have just went on in to the hospital then, but we were both more worried about her hubs who is scared to death. for some reason he is scared they are both going to die in childbirth. So she decided not to call him at work and have him driving like a maniac in a panic for 2 1/2 hours. She's calm. I'm calm. By tomorrow I should have a new grandson and I am betting he is a big one. I need to go back and check...did I win my 2 week bet? She went home to have a light lunch, rest and wait for him to get home.Then they will go to the hospital. Gee, I think she is in better shape to drive. But ...can't have anyone getting too hyper around her..it shoots her blood pressure up dangerously. Guess that's why she knew she could talk to me. See, I can be rational! LOL She is fine. Her only worry when I talked to her yesterday was that they would not induce her today...but today there was protein in her urine which indicated kidney damage. So, no need to beg, plead and convince.
See, we had all ready decided yesterday how this was going to go down! LOL
I have to tell Edie that we can't be friends anymore and I can't work with her anymore. That's my issue. I don't even know how to say things like that. So, nope not answering the phone.
No upsetting issues today for me. They are BANNED.
I am going to have a joyous day.....I get a new baby!!!!!!
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ummm.....I am picky about that...I am Mema.
Greet, you broke me up laughing.
Listen, since loves needs to let some stuff out...why doesn't she just make that phone call for me?
HOW DO you tell someone that? I really don't know how!
Greet, you broke me up laughing.
Listen, since loves needs to let some stuff out...why doesn't she just make that phone call for me?
HOW DO you tell someone that? I really don't know how!
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loves............I once worked in a pediatrics office and they did the circumcisions all the time........believe it or not the babies...cried more getting straped down than they did with the procedure............I've actually seen some babies not cry when the procedure happened..........plus it really is so much better to have it done now like someone else said at 5 or 6 its worse....and there shouldnt be discomfort after.........
you sounded not happy about your daughters decision.......but hey in her defense ( since I cant seem to help myself in defending people
)
god made our earlobes solid too.........and we put holes in them all the time............
when my daughter was 6 weeks old I took her to get her ears peirced and her dad went with me...........she cried......no she screamed blood murder.....her dad grabbed her took her a few steps away from me turned and looked at me and said............."if she keeps crying and this is hurting her.........YOU WALK HOME!!!
Its funny now, but he was pissed he could not believe I did something "so useless" to his baby that made her cry...........well guess what she lived.....I didnt have to walk......and unlike kids that get their ears peirced later in life she never had an infection.........
SO>>>>>>>>>>>it will be ok nana your sweeet boy will be as good as new when you see him next...............hang in there
you sounded not happy about your daughters decision.......but hey in her defense ( since I cant seem to help myself in defending people
) god made our earlobes solid too.........and we put holes in them all the time............
when my daughter was 6 weeks old I took her to get her ears peirced and her dad went with me...........she cried......no she screamed blood murder.....her dad grabbed her took her a few steps away from me turned and looked at me and said............."if she keeps crying and this is hurting her.........YOU WALK HOME!!!
Its funny now, but he was pissed he could not believe I did something "so useless" to his baby that made her cry...........well guess what she lived.....I didnt have to walk......and unlike kids that get their ears peirced later in life she never had an infection.........
SO>>>>>>>>>>>it will be ok nana your sweeet boy will be as good as new when you see him next...............hang in there
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thank you.
I just asked my sis on the phone...she says well, she never takes the advice on sleep on it for 24 hours so let's herself say what she has to say at the time.
I am the opposite. I don't like to react...even when perhaps I should. So I take my time to check with my heart, head and gut.
And talk to hubby.
I wish at the time, I would have just said,..."I don't think we have anything more to say to each other."
Course I was saying nothing. That's what I do when someone says things out of line to me.
I just asked my sis on the phone...she says well, she never takes the advice on sleep on it for 24 hours so let's herself say what she has to say at the time.
I am the opposite. I don't like to react...even when perhaps I should. So I take my time to check with my heart, head and gut.
And talk to hubby.
I wish at the time, I would have just said,..."I don't think we have anything more to say to each other."
Course I was saying nothing. That's what I do when someone says things out of line to me.
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LOL
I like the advice keep it short. There really is nothing to discuss.
What I need to say is this: I don't hang around with people who disrepect me. I am sorry it has come to this. ...but then I don't want a reply or a discussion. Wimp is me! I hate confrontations.
I like the advice keep it short. There really is nothing to discuss.
What I need to say is this: I don't hang around with people who disrepect me. I am sorry it has come to this. ...but then I don't want a reply or a discussion. Wimp is me! I hate confrontations.
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LMAO....indeed Anvil that is my usual MO...avoidance.
I do sort of figure she knows what she said, she probably wants to apologize and explain, but.....I don't care about that. I am over it.
I didn't answer the phone when she called earlier.
I have done that with others in the past. After a few calls, some take longer than others, they get the hint.
This is a little more touchy ...as she is moving in my A step son.
What a clusterf. Y'know what I mean?
I do sort of figure she knows what she said, she probably wants to apologize and explain, but.....I don't care about that. I am over it.
I didn't answer the phone when she called earlier.
I have done that with others in the past. After a few calls, some take longer than others, they get the hint.
This is a little more touchy ...as she is moving in my A step son.
What a clusterf. Y'know what I mean?
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Originally Posted by liveweyerd
LMAO....indeed Anvil that is my usual MO...avoidance.
I do sort of figure she knows what she said, she probably wants to apologize and explain, but.....I don't care about that. I am over it.
I didn't answer the phone when she called earlier.
I have done that with others in the past. After a few calls, some take longer than others, they get the hint.
This is a little more touchy ...as she is moving in my A step son.
What a clusterf. Y'know what I mean?
I do sort of figure she knows what she said, she probably wants to apologize and explain, but.....I don't care about that. I am over it.
I didn't answer the phone when she called earlier.
I have done that with others in the past. After a few calls, some take longer than others, they get the hint.
This is a little more touchy ...as she is moving in my A step son.
What a clusterf. Y'know what I mean?
Live, I sympathize. The worst thing I did to a friendship with the mom of one of my son's friends, was marry her other son, its took much forgiveness to keep our friendship in tact, but now for my son and her grandson a goal we both pursue
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Hey Guys I havent really been reading but wanted to pop up and say hi. I feel better this week probably cause I am going on vacation next week and these past two days have been flying for me. I have been so busy at work but a good busy. I love being busy and feeling useful.
Michael has a ear infection again... it just never ends does it. But I am okay miss you guys. Any news on teke??
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Michael has a ear infection again... it just never ends does it. But I am okay miss you guys. Any news on teke??
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Live, my guess is there is a lot we dont know about the whole thing.
His actions are exactly what I suspected, which is why I didnt encourage her to leave in the beginning but get control over her own feelings. He's a lawyer, taught and trained to manipulate and beat the system. In many states a letter, not threatening isnt violation so there may be a loophole with emails. In addition, she's have to take it to police. Then, theres other catches, like email tracing.
Separately from that I dont trust lawyers, espicially with their own peers, even though I work in the field. WHen I was a little girl my mother was ambushed in court, my dad got house which was supposed to be child support and alot more, my mom was stunned shocked ect, everything was against statute and based on judge's opinion. My mom turned to her attorney who just shrugged and said not a word. That was in June and at my paternal grandfathers July 4th party I attended I saw the Judge and both my parent's attorneys enjoying a drink together.
I dont trust the system myself.
His actions are exactly what I suspected, which is why I didnt encourage her to leave in the beginning but get control over her own feelings. He's a lawyer, taught and trained to manipulate and beat the system. In many states a letter, not threatening isnt violation so there may be a loophole with emails. In addition, she's have to take it to police. Then, theres other catches, like email tracing.
Separately from that I dont trust lawyers, espicially with their own peers, even though I work in the field. WHen I was a little girl my mother was ambushed in court, my dad got house which was supposed to be child support and alot more, my mom was stunned shocked ect, everything was against statute and based on judge's opinion. My mom turned to her attorney who just shrugged and said not a word. That was in June and at my paternal grandfathers July 4th party I attended I saw the Judge and both my parent's attorneys enjoying a drink together.
I dont trust the system myself.
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