dad has custody.......and I'm his wife so when he went to treatment he gave me temporary custody in his absence.............
the child is 11..........has been with us for 1 1/2 years full time and split for 5 years before that
do they treat him well? yes and no...........
yes they love him but they lied to him for years told him they were his parents.....dad was away due to drugs.........
during the custody dispute and after....they do stuff like make him feel guilty for wanting to be with dad.............say negative things to and in fronnt of him.......and most recently say little things to make him feel bad......these are things he tells me about........but he loves them I do know that.......its kinda like they never thought he'd attach to dad....that hed be miserable and want to be with them and when he didnt they seem resentful...........
deep down I know that they will have some negative impact...........on him regarding dad.........