Just remember when you go to court.... remain calm... unlike myself.... you want the judge to see you as being in control of yourself. Also, make sure you clean everything and stock the fridge and cupboards with food, the kids are clean etc. Being that you're both charging each other with drug abuse, they're likely to send someone from CPS to visit the home. They don't announce when they're coming, so keep everything clean. It will all go into a report!