Thank you all.I just can't believe this is our life now.He was such a great guy. Yes we have kids,our youngest is 11 ,he is a type one diabetic ,he has to have 7 shots a day.When we first found out ,my husband lost himself to drugs.Since then there is not one day he is sober.He had his own buisness but lost it 2 months ago.He took mortgages out on our house and I am trying to keep up on it. He has gotten violent the last few weeks.Do they ever want help,or ever want to stop using.