I think he could have contact with his ex because he said he wanted to appologize to her for how he treated her in their 8 years together and never had closure. My feeling is that if that's what he wants he can have it. It was, from what i heard, awful, she as a loser, put him through the ringer. I literally have not done anything but be the best, not fight, pay for things, never asked for a dime, supported him. If the grass is greener than so be it, he's the one that will be ALONE in the end, what goes around comes around, maybe not now but it will and i'll know i did the BEST i could for this relationship. I hope it's not true, he could also be drinking, that was another thought i had from some resources....