Thank you so much for the valuable information, i do appreciate it. Unfortunately as far as the loan went, i took it out and he has to make the payments but i'm going to have to tell him that he'll have to find another way to take it over because i'm not going to have this tie for the next 4 years. I at the very least think he owes me an explination of whats going on. In my mind, he's left it for me to get so aggrevated that i'll break up with him and i'm not giving him that easy out. I deserve much much more than that, all I want is the truth. It's so unfair, and this is why i hate dating
