I have an AS who is 28. He's serving jail time now for not being able to pass a drug test while on probation. His tough luck. I don't help any more.
I do have my granddaughter and her mother living with me from yet another son who is in prison. All my kids are in jail. It's unreal.
Fortunately, my DIL is a sweet good person.
I hate drug addiction and alcoholism. It causes nothing but grief.