(((Tug))) Lessons learned... all the way around.
We bailed our daughter out not long ago following a domestic violence dispute - for the exact same reason - thinking of the little guy. But then she turned right around and bailed out the husband who is initiating the violence!
We also learned a lesson... no more bail.
Good for you for filing papers for the grandbaby. Sorry your vacation was jumbled.
(((hugs)))