Awww, Tug. I am so sorry.
What a mess he's gotten himself into.
I've been there, honey. Not in a while, but I been there before.
I know you think that dropping the charges was a bad idea now. Hindsight, right?
I learned alot about hindsight. lol I'm still learnin'.
I hope and pray they give you custody of your granddaughter.
I just thank God that Jay never had a baby with anyone.
It just makes things that much harder.
My sister has custody of her 5 yo grandson. She's had him since he was 2.
His dad just got out of jail, not too long ago. Has he attempted to call or see Gage?
He!! no. If I were my sister, I wouldn't let him near him anyway. That's just my opinion. I don't know. If I were in that situation, I don't know how I would react.
OMG! React. That's a bad word with us codies. lol We're suppose to be learning how not to react.
I forget. I'm old ya know.
Did you read my thread about the pesticide-filled pot that Jason smoked?
Idiot! I'm not even gonna listen to his crap anymore. As soon as he starts talking "stupid", I'm hangin' up or leavin', if I'm there.
I just want you to know that I know what your going through, and I know it hurts you and your family very much.
Try to work on detaching, sweetie. I know it's hard. I work it everyday.
You have to harden your heart for now. Sending prayers that he gets his wake up call soon. Rock bottom...it can't come soon enough, can it?
If you want to talk, pm me and I'll give ya my phone number. I care about you, Cheryl. I truly do.
All said with love and understanding,
Linda
