Welcome Doctor's Wife!!!
Yes, you have found a wonderful site! (a little late coming in sorry) The Addict is my Husband of 7 year's. He is simular to your Husband in quitting one addiction and then moving on to another. For a while in our relationship, I truly thought he was clean because there was no evidence. But the signs were alway's there, and he denied it and called me crazy constantly. It wasn't until I found SR when I realized how broken down I had truly become, and I learned that I cannot fix my AH. It only takes him to fix himself when he is ready.
So I packed my belongings and my Son's and we have been seperated 4 month's. It was a decision I had to make for myself and my Son. I had to stop waiting for my Husband to realize what he was doing was sick. I had to let go of "wishing" and the most part is giving up my home that I had built from bottom up. Now I am back in school and not listening to AH quack. I have a life that is calm now and yes... there are moment's of laughter.
I am glad you posted... hope to hear from you soon..