Well, it got pretty ugly today. I held my tongue while he went on and on at the lawyers about poor him. I tried to tell him not to ask me/ tell me about his personal business. But then he brought up my parents and wanting to visit them. I told him he was no longer welcome at their house as I had told them about his drug use. He went balistic! Thank God he doesn't know that I've told the kids, I truly think he'd hurt me, based on the rage I saw. I've asked the kids not to speak with him about it ~ I hate to put them in this position, but feel there is no choice. Wish I'd kept my mouth shut, but my parents are elderly and don't want him in their house, and we will be moving there soon. Here I go again, my stomach in a knot over HIS secrets. Please pray he gets the divorce papers signed and doesn't cause trouble now......