For me, Letting go with love means I am letting go of the chaos that comes with addiction. I am strong in my boundries. I cannot be manipulated as easily as when I get caught up in it all. As Greet said, learnig about addiction helps a great deal. It is a learning process. I can hate the drugs, hate the addiction, hate the drama, but still love my daughter with all my heart.
Letting go with love also means that I understand I cannot make my daughter well. It is up to her. I leave her in Gods hands. I trust He will do what is nessesary for her to learn what she needs to move past addiction.
I am a mom, and still have moments where I doubt myself & doubt the lesson being taught, but I try to hang on, have faith, and breath.