hey lost, sorry you and her are hurting still. i've been clean awhile and i'm here to tell you how much i agree with the others. its kind of like trying to learn to walk for someone else, its just impossible. the only way that you can help her, is by not helping her. she has to have that desperate determination not to use and she and only she can make the choices that will bring her to that better place. honestly, all you or any doctor can do for her right now, will not stop her from using unless she makes a decision to stop. i will continue to keep you and her in my prayers.
btw, i haven't been around as much either, but i was wondering how things were for you and for her,