I've been spending some significant time with Courage to Change in the last few days since I am leading my Naranon meeting tonight. I wanted to select a topic that was relevant to most and was not one we have explored too much this year. I chose decision making and action. I read more about the 3 A's, something I don't see in literature as much as I do the 3 C's. The 3 A's are Awareness, Acceptance, and Action. I really related to how we must get to acceptance before we can contemplate action. I think perhaps this is where you are at now Teke...with the acceptance stage. Now that it is becoming clearer, I too would suggest that the move forward could be to contemplate action rather than to have to prove that he has been doing what you think. You know in your heart and your HP knows...That's all that you have to concern yourself with. others will come to awareness and acceptance in their own time and in their own way.
Continued prayers Teke, I hope you are feeling better today. Hugs