Morning Teke,
Time to get the focus back on you and off you AH no matter he has or hasn't done.
So what steps can you take today to make your life better? Do you need to think of moving out? Do you need to see a lawyer? Do you need to stop and and pray and ask your HP for guidance as to what you need to do for you and the kids?
You can research all day long about what he has done and all that will do is keep your stomach churning. If you know in your heart and mind all this has taken place, it's now up to you to decide if you want to remain in this situation or you want to take steps to change your life and where you're living.
I pray you'll realize those first 3 steps which condensed are: I can't, He can, I think I'll let him. Ask you HP to guide you as to what you need to do and then listen. I've always asked but then wanted to do it my way.
Funny thing, that never has worked!
Hugs,
Hangin' In