Ohh.... judmental...judgmental... judgmental!!!
And controlling!!
And martyring!!
And being a victim!!
Yep... and those are just the beginning.
Funny thing - in meetings, I've learned to remember a saying I heard right here on THESE boards, but up in one of the other rooms (AA? Alcoholism? One of those...)
"I spot it, I got it".
Now, when someone at a meeting is irritating the heck out of me, I can almost ALWAYS figure out which one of MY character defects I have spotted! For me, that is progress....
Thanks for this, Spiritual Seeker. Very good.