Susan, When my daughter was in rehab she stopped smoking along with everything else. I think Marle said she heard it is easier to stop all addictions at the same time.
When she came home she started to smoke again but she did cut down. Like Lake said we lower our expectations. Who knows what she is doing now.........I would like to think it is only cigarettes. When I don't see her, I don't know and I think that is better. Today I hate her for all that she has put me through.
Good luck, sweetie............I know making these decisions are never easy.
Hugs..............Lois