his mom went and hired a PI on me!!!),
HOLY MOLY TG (batgirl
) You got a lot of DRAMA goin on there,,,
For me, that was/is the hardest thing to let go,,,,
So, I use the "excuse" that I don't want to be the bad guy.
In my case, my A, berates me. Its a major DRAMA button pusher. I don't want to be the BAD GUY. So, I break my "no contact" rule and email him how wrong he is? Do I get any satisfaction? NOT What I get is a barrage of mail back, reinforcing his BAD GUY image of me. And the continuim continues.
Is it over or not?
Thats what I ask myelf
Peace
PS, oh an yes some TOTAL getting honest with myself. If I don't have that drama fix, I find myself LOOKING for it. Almost like the A trying to get past a craving,,,