I Can't Speak For You, Only Me. Theres An Ols Saying That Goes Something Like This "if You Keep Doing What Youve Always Done, Youll Keep Getting What You Always Got" My Addict Is My 20 Year Old Son. We Have'nt Let Him Come Home Since Easter. He Spent Ten Days In Jail Between Then And Now. Im Watching Him Destroy His Life, His Friendships, His Relationship With His Brothers, He Lies, He Cheats, He Steals, He Uses. Until He Stops Using Nothing Will Change. Just One Cycle After Another. We Are Trying To Detach With Love. It Is So Hard For His Mother An I. Its Probably As Hard To Detach From Someone Who Isn't A Child. Maybe You Can.