Hey Kitkat,
I think you made a HUGE step here... Situations like this often bubble and broil and stew for years... and then we're left wondering why we are so unhappy.
I probably shouldn't have said this, but I told him I don't trust him.
Yes you should have said it - and you did. Why shouldn't he know? It's OK not to trust him, in fact it's completely justified. And he knows how his behavior effects you. He knows that he isn't exactly the innocent one here.
I'm happy for you that you got things a little more out in the open... Now to get on with taking care of you
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Meg