Marteen, Same with my AD.....everything is always someone else's fault. I keep telling her that these things wouldn't happen to her if she would stop putting herself in bad situations. She says how can you say that when I am so upset.......it seems as though you are blaming me for what has happened. I try to tell her I am not blaming her for what has happened......I'm just trying to explain to her that if she made better choices most likely these situations wouldn't occur. She just doesn't get it.