Dear Louise, My heart goes out to you. I know how very much you want to see him in recovery. I feel the same way about my AS. I think you are right though about staying detached this time........there is absolutely nothing we can do to help them. It is entirely up to him if he wants to stay clean & no matter what you do it won't make a difference if he decides to use. Keep detached, that is the best thing I can say.
I hope he stays clean this time. I will keep him in my prayers.
Love,
Diane