thanks everybody -
if you can believe it dcfs went to the house (urgently it seemed) and no one answered the door - dcfs called my mom and asked if she knew where they could be - mom asked if a van was there (it was) my mom said they were home, just not answering door - dcfs said there was nothing they could do if no one answered the door - SURELY people have not let dcfs in their home before? - this can't be a first for these investigators? i am still holding out hope that they won't use drugs because they really do love their kids but i thought they really loved their kids when they spent $75,000 on crack - and as we all know love alone doesn't stop an addict - so please keep the lil guys in your prayers - i am going to call sister and just ask her to keep in touch - i do want to send all the stuff to the lil guys and i want my kids to be able to have a relationship with their cousins - i really hope it will all be ok - i do...
thanks to all of you...
love,
s