[QUOTE=GarryW;1348431] I did things I swore I'd never do and I experienced depths I never imagined. With each relapse, my addiction got worse and worse. I sold things from my home, I commited crimes, and I binged for weeks at a time. Had it not been for my dear mother, a dedicated counselor, and a very close friend...I'd probably be dead. They stuck by my side through it all because they knew I was sick.
I am not sure what a functioning addict is but my sister is 39 (20 yrs drunk) last 3 the worst. I have been there for her but have basically left her to herself now because it was affecting my life way too much.
Anyhow on this forum many have said leave her alone, accept what she is....
I love her, so much would love to see her well again and living a great life but I know she has to want it. Now,,,,, though... do I just wait for her to contact me if she needs help etc etc.
I finally got hold of her today and she said she wanted to die...it was too hard for her with the meds, relapses, withdrawal..
She wants me to call her tonight..