guilty drinking
I also have struggled with this issue....my A is an active drinker.For years I didn't drink at all....my A likes drink at home get wasted. I really don't see any fun in that. If I was going to drink I'd want to be with friends or out doing something. After awhile it just becomes more of a hassle to drink.......driving...ext.
getting a sitter. so I just didn't drink at all, Then I came to the realization that it just didn't matter if I drank or not...cause I had no control over my A. He was going to drink regarless. I started to enjoy the odd....beer......Then I decided that I had to have all faculties with me to be able to react to the continues chaus....that his drinking causes.....It's just No fun drinking with an A.....and I am taking care of me, I choose to keep my head straight....and set an example for my children... when I see so much sickness caused from drinking....I really loose any interest. so I've just decided to stay away from it.