Oh Laurie, I am so sorry that happened. The one thing I had to come to terms with is that we are not allowed to pick our family members, we also don't have to like them. It is not a crime not to be friends with all of our family members. That doesn't mean that we need to hate them, please don't get me wrong, but like is another thing all together. I haven't spoken to my Father in over 14 years.....because it was a toxic relationship. It was mentally wrecking me, so I opted to put some space between the negativity and me. I don't hate him, but I sure don't miss him either. I consider my family to be the people who love me for me, and I love them for them too!!! Possibly you can put in an appearance when necessary, other than that, surround yourself with positive people.
((((((Laurie)))))
Cathy