Actions talk and words whisper
As usual E, BIG thought, said with few words.
Milford, right now, I'm struggling with my boundries. Truth be told I was almost afraid to read your thread. That new to my own recovery that it may "tip the scales" if you will in my A's favor.
OMG, people are posting that the relationship CAN be saved. Let me cross my own boundry to see if mine can
Ummmmmmmmm,,,,,,NOT
All I can do is be in this day. And let the "chip's fall where they may".
Personally, for me to think the realtionship can be saved takes the focus OFF my own recovery. I have to go at it from the angle, its over. Double dose of grief if you will. The loss of my codieism, and the demise of my dreams.
Only then will I have clarity and do what is right for ME, instead of someone else
Peace