[QUOTE=care4uNJ;1341867]... just because now he is in a recovering program, doesn't mean that you can blame every stupid boneheaded move you ever made on alcohol, right??/QUOTE]
Recovery is not about blaming even ONE wrongful decision about alcohol, in fact it is the complete opposite.
AMENDS is about taking responsibility and owning up to our actions and about moving on.
The guy may be doing the best he can with making his amends.