Marle, I blieve my HP has perfect timing. It sure isn't my timing cuz I like u want my son clean & sober yesterday. I feel we have all suffered enough from his addiction, but I know if he gets clean in my timing it won't last. My HP has a plan for his life. He could have bought it 100 times over from the drug & the lifestyle he is living.
So I wait. Now I have chosen to stop any relationship with my son until he is clean, sober, and working a program. He may not have had enough but I did. As Ann has said " I cannot go to that dark place anymore " So I have given him totally to his HP, & pray everyday for his recovery & for his HP to keep him safe. It is the only way I can deal with it now & keep my sanity. It is very sad as she is your only child. It does make it a bit easier for me as I have another son who is a single dad & this keeps me very busy so I don't have as much time to dwell on it.
I will keep your daughter & your family in my prayers as I do all the families & addicts I meet here.
Love,
Diane