Originally Posted by
splendra 
I think they are so full of fear of change and just fear in general. Then of course if they have a lot of support in place(codies who take responsibility for them) they have no need to change especially if it has been going on for years.
I agree, I think it is fear. My AS went into rehab in Jan and while he wanted to be clean he couldn't imagine his life without drugs. When he went into rehab, I educated myself on codie issues, and I won't kid you, it was not easy for either of us. We both have a lot to learn but he is working a program big time and I am learning how to support him and not get in the way of his recovery.... I hope!
Best of luck.
CIM