Hey Chris,
Sorry, didn't mean to suggest anything, I know it's more complicated than that. I think you may want to give the Storm (ake codie...lol) approach a try first. Trust me, the whole business of changing wives can be real messy. I tried a lot of things before I had to do what had to be done.
Anyway, congrats on your sober time and your recovery, we love success stories here, inspires us all!
S