Chris.....
May seem strange from the alkie here but.....
Have you given her her belated roses for Mother's Day?
Do you love her?
You might try holding her and telling her that......
Let's just say...I have been a codie and am a codie....
So I know what she's going thru as well.
I think she's terrified...you finally stopped and now she feels she is replaced
by people who "understand" you.
Love,
IO