rae,
My boyfriend is the addict in my life, his drug of choice is crack. I have been through the ups and downs of his addiction. Like you every stint in rehab or jail i would get my hopes up just to have them crash again. If I was you I would leave it alone, forget about the money see it as a lesson learned and continue going on with your life. You see even though I am still with my abf i will have to deal with him forever since we have a son together. When I look at my little boy whose only a year I wonder how am I going to explain to him that his dad uses drugs. Before this happens to you I think you should just close the door on this. But regardless of what you do we will be here for you.
Hugs,
jewel