The question here Lacey is how much do you want to get sober and enjoy the new life sobriety can give you? It's not up to your husband whether or not you succeed, it's up to you. I'd use his attitude in a positive way. I'd get sober in spite of him and if he wants to get on the bandwagon with me, fine! If not, I'd leave him in my dust. It's your life you're dealing with not his. He has choices too. He can either love and support, or not. You can't force him to do either one. Just take care of yourself.