Thanks Anvil. We aprted on good terms. Just after he got paid that day calling all day and then put me off the next day I told him Id had enough. His last words were Im sorry Ill amke it up to you I will win you back, a week later he called telling me I was his angel and I repeated I had nothing to say to him he needed to show responsibility and send me money. That was it. How long as it been...5 and a half weeks since we stopped residing together but 3 and a half weeks ago he showed up mid of night and stayed a few days, following week he worked, apparently its been down hill much worse since then as that was the last time either talked to anyone at all.
The letter is going out today, its just starting to feel like its really over, I guess