teke, check out divorcenet.com, lots of good info and sites to get forms. or try googling free divorce complaint forms, every states different though, or try calling your local county prothonotary (in the courthouse) and ask if they have blank divorce complaints, usually you just pay a couple of bucks for copies there. hope it helps.
cind, i worry too about missing the affection, that was always my weak spot, and he knows it too, if he just puts out those arms of his, i come running. try to be strong and remember how many times those arms WEREN'T there for you.